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HAPPY BIRTHDAY, SWAMI SWAHANANDA

We here at the Sedona Intensive™ wish Swami Swahananda, Albert’s spiritual teacher, a very Happy 87th Birthday. He will be honored with a cake and ice cream celebration at the Vedanta Society in Hollywood on Sunday, June 29th. Albert and Scott will attend. Swami is the Spiritual Head of the Vedanta Society of Southern California. In Albert’s new book, You’re Not Who You Think You Are—a Breakthrough Guide to Discover the Authentic You, which will be published December 2, 2008 by Atria Books, a division of Simon & Schuster, Swami Swahananda serves as a spiritual conduit of the eight steps to self-realization.  www.vedanta.org

What can the stars tell us about the death of newsman Tim Russert?

Let’s take a closer look…

 

     

Tim Russert was born on May 7, 1950 in Buffalo, New York. No time of birth available.

Tim Russert was a non-nonsense Taurus—determined and single-purposed—with Mercury, how one thinks and communicates, in Taurus, retrograde. Retrograde makes him more capable of being open-minded. But what solidified his reputation as an effective interviewer of the most powerful men and women in the world—he asked the tough questions and never let up until his subject answered them—was his Grand Earth Trine: Moon in Capricorn (cold and detached), Sun/Mercury in Taurus and Mars in Virgo (picky, critical and analytical—he got what he was digging for every time).

He had Jupiter in Pisces (caring and visionary) trine his Uranus in Cancer (for all his noise about ‘family matters’ Tim was not a carbon copy of his dad or anyone else in the family).

When someone dies as young as Tim Russert was, everyone comes out of the woodwork to ‘praise Caesar’ and praise Tim they did. But he was not one who got too close to any of his subjects—he would not allow anything to get in the way of his subjective reporting, which is borne out in his natal and progressed charts. My favorite moment with Tim Russert was an interview with Hillary Clinton when she was trying to waffle on NAFTA and he made her declare, something almost impossible with either of the Clintons.

The signals for death for Tim Russert were transiting Pluto has been squaring his natal Venus in Aries for six months—this indicates that he has been at risk for some time but more than likely had not had a check-up recently, especially a medical examination that would have uncovered his heart condition. Death is always accompanied by ‘ease and comfort’ transits as well. His progressed Moon in Pisces was trining his progressed Sun in Cancer. Trines are usually always benefic. Uranus was transiting at 22 degrees of Pisces opposing his natal Mars at 22 degrees of Virgo—both Uranus and Mars indicate sudden happenstance, and Virgo is always a mark of health issues. Both would indicate trigger points for sudden death.

Tim Russert will be hard to replace because we are living in a currency where everyone in public life seem to crave being loved and adored—it’s the Oprah syndrome cloned with the Sally Field cry at the Oscars a few years ago: “You love me; you really do love me!”

God bless Tim Russert. I will miss you more than you know—I loved watching “big pieces of stuff” squirm, forced to tell the truth to a gentleman and a scholar on national television.

 

FIRED!

A client recently consulted with me about what direction his life was going to take, and what conscious and clear insights I might be able to give him about himself. It still amazes me how an ordinary man like me can go so deep so fast in uncovering the secret hiding places of one’s ego and all the shenanigans this dark side puts one through to keep him or her living a life as someone they are not.

This man who I will refer to as Jonah came to me shined and polished as someone who thought he was on a mission to help change the world, perhaps in larger arenas as his reputation grew exponentially. This man thought he was spiritually fit—he was certainly attractive enough and quite engaging—no dummy this one—but his blind spot for why he was stuck and not going anywhere faster that 5 mph was hiding in plain sight: he had been fired from every job he had been hired on to do, but he had never seen this as odd and out of sorts for someone as bright and as intelligent as he was. Once I threw the bright lights on this area of his life, the blight—this major barrier to who he was and what he was supposed to be doing with his life—became as obvious as the proverbial nose on his face. Getting fired from jobs that his best thinking got him hired to perform was the turning point, the masterpiece, if you will, of what he was supposed to do with his life.

Because he was passionate about being of service to others in a counseling setting I had to help him understand that he could not give away something he did not have. In other words, who was he to tell others how to live their dream if he was living a nightmare instead of fulfilling the assignment God gave him when he was born? When we named and tagged the elephant in the living room, he had that famous “aha” and we set about seeing how he could experience uncovering who he really was and what he was supposed to do with his life through the Sedona Intensive experience.

In one short hour Jonah went from bewitched about his future to coming to understand that his story of failure in the work place was his touchstone to share with potential clients and perhaps to tell the truth in a workbook that would expose his failures as his greatest assets: getting fired from all these jobs fired him up—he was becoming passionate about how getting thrown out of jobs actually landed him in the midst of what he was supposed to do with his life: share what happened to him and how his story could benefit others. Not such shabby results from one hour of my time and his.

As each of us continues to struggle with finding our life’s purpose we might take a page from Jonah’s new book: our failures can lead to exposing who we are to ourselves and these failures have a roadmap to success if we will stay the course, continue to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God, and follow the bread crumbs to that magical, mystical thing called God’s assignment that only we can fill.

What have you failed to see that is not working in your life? What is your calling that only you can fulfill exactly as God would have you do—no one else. When I get out of God’s way all the hidden issues in my life become revealed and I am happier in such as way that all the money in the world cannot buy.

Anger before Rage

Have you ever been madder than a wet hen and felt as though you weren’t allowed to express it?  Where did this insane belief originate?  For some reason within the spiritual community this ridiculous dogma is rampant.  I hear all these sweet mellifluous voices saying that love is all there is, and that it is not ‘spiritual’ to be angry.  OK, I understand this as a cerebral, esoteric and highly evolved ideal to work towards, but we are human with a wide range of emotions, aren’t we?  Don’t you think we should allow ourselves to blow off some steam once in a while?

My experience shows that if I don’t occasionally lift the lid on my smoldering ember, it ignites into an out of control bond fire that consumes anything and anyone in my path.  Or conversely, it takes on some form of depression.  This is not fair to others or me. 

Furthermore, when I encounter a person or situation that disturbs me, initially I want to point the finger in blame, but ultimately I need to give thanks for another opportunity for growth. When I am triggered by something someone says or does, I first need to see what it is bringing up in me. Why am I out of sorts by what this person has said or done?  By looking at this situation with detachment makes me more authentic.  Having answered my own question with affirmative action does not imply that the other individual should not be held accountable for his behavior; it simply means that I need to look within myself and do what I can to amend the disruptive situation. I find that most people, particularly friends, are reasonable. And in finding the courage to face the heated situation, I don’t have to give my power away.

The next time you feel a tinge of anger rumbling in your gut, give yourself permission to find something or someone with whom you can safely release your emotional build up before it escalates to rage.



By the time you receive this newsletter Mercury will have gone direct in Gemini. In reviewing your life over the last three weeks you may have realized that anything mechanical that could fail you most likely did. With me it was my washing machine; for you it might have been your computer that acted up or your automobile (I have often noticed more cars on the side of the road with apparent mechanical problems during this phenomenon called Mercury Retrograde)—many of you may have experienced delays in air travel—or those documents you signed beginning last May 27th proved to be riddled with hidden fine print clauses or mistakes. Exhale. Thank the heavens that we will not have another Mercury retrograde until September 24.

Uranus goes retrograde on June 27, which means that Pisces and Virgo and Gemini and Sagittarians will not have as many sudden changes in their lives. Uranus in Pisces is capable of bringing new dreams and hopes and wishes that come true to these mutable signs that are most affected.

There will be a New Moon at 11 degrees of Cancer on July 2nd—which means that Cancers will have a lot of opportunities to make new beginnings, especially on the home front. This is a good time to redecorate or add-on—or possibly to move into a new house. Other water signs, Scorpio and Pisces will be favorably affected as well.

There will be a Full Moon at 24 degrees of Capricorn on July 18th, which always signals an ending of some sort for you Goats. Remember, when one door closes, there is always an escalator to the top where you have always wanted to go.

This month I want you to read the horoscope of the sign opposite you. For example, Aries, you should also read Libra; Taurus, look at Scorpio, Gemini~Sagittarius; Cancer~ Capricorn; Leo~Aquarius; Virgo~Pisces. There is an ancient theory that the redemption for the life you are now living is possible by learning the lessons that your opposing sign has to teach you. For instance, Aries says, “It’s all about me.” Libra corrects by advising that, “It’s all about both of us.” Taurus likes to believe, “This is my money.” Scorpio educates that, “This is our money.” When the Libra is convinced that she has to have a partner, Aries advises, “Look for the partnership within you.” The Scorpio has to learn that he or she must make their share of the money to be able to ante up for the greater good. You’ll find this to be an amazing lesson to open you up to more by letting go of what is not working.


Cancer (June 21 - July 22)

When Mercury goes into Cancer July 11th you will begin to feel like everything is coming up roses. Finally, you seem to make good sense and everyone understands not only what you want but what you deserve as well. The New Moon in Cancer on July 2nd begins your summer run of having a lot of fun and being able to pay for it. With the economic gray skies forecasts you may want to throw a barbecue and stay close to home for your ‘kick up your heels’ time. Ain’t it great to have some good cosmic news for a change?




Leo (July 22 - August 22)

You may want to take another deeper look at your shadow and see if it is undervaluing you by letting you slip a little too carelessly into ego posturing. It is one thing to feel your oats but another inappropriate matter to gloat and preen at everyone else’s expense. When the Sun is in Cancer, it is time to see how you can benefit others as you cast your hook into the cool, clear waters. This month is a time for you Leos to receive to share. The pay-off is a feeling of interrelatedness which connects you to friends and strangers alike.




Virgo (August 23 - September 22)

Saturn in your Sun sign is making you better, I promise. You Virgos are known to be a bit cerebral with a touch of overt criticism, so this is the time to show a little kindness and let it wash back over you. The ego is always trying to sell you a bill of goods, and Saturn is helping you drop the rock of thinking, thinking, thinking too much. Life is not a math problem. Let solutions be revealed through right use of will. Calibrate you head and heart and listen for the kinder, softer, gentler voice to speak.




Libra (September 23 - October 22)

With Jupiter in Capricorn squaring you for a few more months you may want to check your list of intimates, friends and lovers and see whose time has come to go ‘bye-bye’. You might want to call the Kripalu Institute (www.kripalu.org) and book a silent week-end or plan a stay-at-home week-end to get to know yourself. Librans are too needy for constant companions, so break the chains to the corral that houses all the people with whom you cannot live without. Meet the real you in the inner sanctum.




Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)

If you ladies and gentlemen armed with deadly stingers have any more opportunities to live life on life’s terms with an attitude of proactive behavior the sky maps are going to have to rewrite your script with softer words of descriptions. This is another cosmic cycle when you can realize your dreams if you stick to what people, places and things are ordained by a Higher Power. Push the river and you will drown in troubled waters that you could have avoided.




Sagittarius (November 22 - December 20)

If the world gets any scarier you optimistic, globe trotters are going to have to find a better source of inspiration. If anyone can make a silk purse out of straw it is you Archers. Your greatest gift is the ability to believe in yourself and not to depend on the luck of the draw or winning the lottery. Now that Pluto is back in Sagittarius until the end of the year, make a list and check it twice of all the things that you need to let go of and what to put in its place. If what you need help with is addictive behavior, make a phone call for help.




Capricorn (December 21 - January 19)

As we get closer to that Full Moon in Capricorn on July 18th take a cold detached hard look at your game plan and see where you are or if you need to start over. You are not known to be the fastest trackman in the Zodiac, but you might need to pick up pace a tad. You have all the help you need from Saturn in Virgo and Uranus in Pisces. While everyone else in this financial topsy turvy world is crying, “Why me?”, your retort is “Why not me?” Keep plugging away. Your dream plans will soon pay off.



Aquarius (January 20 - February 17)

If any sign is going to build a better mouse trap to financial rehabilitation it is going to be you Aquarians. You had better weigh in to see what station you are listening to because Neptune in your Sun Sign could mean static interference for a while longer. No one knows better than you do how important it is to listen to your own still small voice of intuition. The financial woes are not all a bad thing. The Good Book says that ‘the love of money is the root of all evil.” Make sure your love affair is not with the Almighty dollah—but rather that your head trip is leading you to find God’s purpose for your life.




Pisces (February 18 - March 20)

Both these lunations this planetary cycle are very beneficial to you, so let go and let God run the show. With Uranus in Pisces in retrograde and Saturn opposing your Sun sign lean on the bedrock of Jupiter and Pluto showering blessings from heaven. This is a great time for you to lay low and let the rest of the world go by. Take a page from Virgo’s book and learn to cope in a feet-on-the-ground realistic way. You may be a dreamer but when it’s time to pay the piper, you will definitely want a roadmap.


Aries (March 21 - April 20)

If you find the IRS knocking on your door and the bank set to repossess your dream castle, all is not lost. Less is more and a lighter mortgage will diminish a lot of the stress that overload has been causing. Why not lighten your load—simplify things. Downsize and love the journey that economic snafus have taken you on. If there is one simple and basic message for you Rams it is this: there is little room for speculation or a devil-may-care approach to doing business in 2008. Learn to slow down and let everyone’s mind catch up with your faster-than-the-speed-of-light idea pool.


Taurus (April 21 - May 20)

While everyone else is wondering if food stamps are next, your financial garden will be growing and prospering beyond words. Chalk it up to that Saturn in Virgo and Jupiter and Pluto in Capricorn—and don’t forget Uranus in Pisces. You’ll be sitting pretty just as long as you remember two things: 1) it rains on the just and the unjust; and 2) this too shall pass. Make sure that you are casting your lot with the Divine and not paying too much attention to ‘get rich’ schemes.



Gemini (May 21 - June 20)

If Saturn in Virgo squaring your Sun sign has you down in the dumps just remember that Saturn makes us stronger in the long run. This planetary movement can make you work harder for a decent paycheck; get you to the gym to work off that flab; and get you to change that dial to a station that is in tune with the voice of intuition broadcasting from within you. With Mercury now out of retrograde in Gemini, you’ll feel like the load of the world has been lifted from your shoulders. No matter how hard things get, don’t forget to tithe 10% or more. God is your source, not the Stock Market or cockamamie fads.

Andrew Bell

On Friday morning, the world lost a great man when Tim Russert died at 58 of cardiac arrest.  I was never a big fan of Tim’s, as I tend to sleep in Sunday mornings and miss Meet the Press, however, what I have come to learn about Tim, was that he was an example, not only for journalists and the media alike, but also for every living American.  Tim covered politics so fairly and impartially that most citizens, upon listening to his show, would be completely oblivious to his political leanings.  In a world filled with animosity, and name calling, and the likes of Bill Maher, Bill O’Reilly, James Carville and Lou Dobbs consistently ruling our TV screens, it was nice for once to see a man who would ask the tough questions to any candidate, regardless of his personal feelings.  Today, with so many problems occurring stateside, it is hard for many people to hold back their personal feelings and eliminate them from fair journalism. With so much angst around the nation, networks encourage hosts to give in to personal biases in order to increase ratings. 

Tim Russert wasn’t much into ratings.   He was instead into protecting his family and his nation, by whatever means he could.  Of course, Tim had deep rooted personal beliefs that he lived by, one must look no further than his two books to see them, however, when he sat down to interview leaders, he gave you what you wanted to see.  Not in an arrogant and condescending way, but in a clear, composed and proactive fashion.  He treated Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton, as he treated John McCain and Mitt Romney.  In a world crying out for brutal honesty, Tim was there to remind us all to stay grounded, honest and involved.  He was one of the few sincere policemen, in a world consistently increasing in attack dogs. 

As his face is shown over and over again in the media in the coming days, and his face is plastered on the covers of most newspapers, try to use Tim as a model for continuing to improve your lives.  Instead of bickering at the other party, or rival sports team, or harboring hate against those who disagree with you, try to be clear and hold everyone to the same respectable and just standard.  I know in the coming months, I will try to do the same.

Thank you Mr. Russert, for shining your light on us for as long as you did.

The Price of Ice Cream

By Bill Sharon

Stephen Dubner co-authored a book called Freakonomics and writes a blog/column for the New York Times of the same name. He is rightfully credited with making economics accessible to everyone by applying theory to every day life. The piece he wrote on June 9, 2008 is, however, disturbing.

He describes a weekend activity with his children during which they set up an ice cream maker that one of them had received some time earlier as a birthday present. All the necessary items were purchased for $12 and the orange sherbet they produced was apparently borderline inedible. The $12 he asserts could have been used to buy twice as much sherbet and it would have tasted better. The column went on to examine the economics of people growing their own food and, while acknowledging that there might be some additional benefits (exercise, suntan, satisfaction, etc.) ultimately the cost would be greater, the quality lower and the choice of diet restricted.

In reading the column Mr. Dubner’s talents are clear. He was able to make his case in a lucid manner and the language and mathematics describe the greater expense of the Locavores (I had to look that up – it was the 2007 Word of the Year in the Oxford American Dictionary and describes people who only eat food grown within a defined radius of where they live, usually 50 – 150 miles). But even after reading the piece a second time I still came away with the same feeling. I felt sorry for his kids.

Did they have fun making the foul tasting sherbet? Did they fight about who would do what and end up learning how to share? Did Dad relish the time he was able to spend with his children? I hope so and I have no reason to doubt Mr. Dubner’s commitment as a father but I think his analysis misses the point and illustrates one of the core problems we have in our culture.

To paraphrase Oscar Wilde, we all seem to know the price of everything and the value of nothing. Human experience has been reduced to dollars and cents. That thinking is as delusional as the origins of the subprime crisis. Price is transitory, subject to value of a currency, the demand for the product, the efficiency of the market and the fickle whims of the consumer. Viewing an experience with a child through the prism of the dollar cost seems very depressing.

People are increasingly hungry in the United States. Inside all those homes that are in foreclosure as well as the ones that are two and three months behind in payments people are cutting what used to be considered essentials so they can to keep their homes and their families together. Meanwhile, the cost of food and fuel is soaring. The Locavores not only grow food for themselves, they donate to food banks and friends in need. The value of such behavior is only marginally related to cost.

We’ve been told that we have a love affair with our cars and we are addicted to oil. Aside from the subtle claim that we are somehow in a swoon on these issues and not really responsible for our actions, we miss the real addiction; the worship of the dollar. We’ve confused the means with the end. Money isn’t the evil. The fear that manifests itself as greed is what is making us all so miserable, anxious and worried about what tomorrow will bring.